With this guide, you'll discover...

  • Exactly how to transform envy and comparison into greater self-acceptance
  • Who you are beyond the "day-to-day wondering-if-there-is-more" you
  • What your most "favorite famous person" can reveal about you
  • Simple and actionable steps to embody your newly discovered qualities
  • A sneaky way that you can use to keep discovering more about yourself every day 
  • The mistake you may be making on your personal growth path that keeps you from getting what you want
  • One thing strong women get wrong that's at the root of why we never feel fully seen and loved
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I want to make sure you feel fully supported and get the most out of this, so I've recorded a walk-through video to give you lots of helpful guidance as you work through the exercises and journal prompts. 


My Highly Sought After "You're Perfect As You Are" Talk

with relaxing music to remind you that you're perfect as you are and that you, exactly as you, are what the world needs.

“We are not here to fit in, be well balanced, or provide examples for others. We are here to be eccentric, different, perhaps strange, perhaps merely to add our small piece, our little clunky, chunky selves, to the great mosaic of being. As the gods intended, we are here to become more and more ourselves.” 

-James Hollis

Why should you trust me? I've been there myself...

Hi! I'm Deb, founder of The Whole Soul Way™ and Self-Love Guide and Soul Nurturer for self-reliant women. 

It began in 2010 when I got tapped on the shoulder by my Soul. All the ways I managed and controlled my life were no longer working. I had always been happy (literally always smiling), and my life was going well. I had the "husband and two kids," a beautiful home, good friends, and so much more. I was the strong and reliable one. The one who didn't seem to need much. The one who could become whoever I needed to be to avoid upsetting someone or making others uncomfortable. 

I felt disconnected and restless–like something was missing (it was me, missing from my own life). I blamed my husband (he always seemed to be my scapegoat). Fortunately, we got miserable enough to end up in couples' counseling. Our counselor was A-MAZING––a transpersonal therapist with countless years of experience. She saved our marriage and walked ME back home to myself. 

Now I do this for others.

Grab the guide so you can discover more of yourself!

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