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COMING SOON: A SELF-PACED VERSION!
The Whole Soul Way™
is a one-of-a-kind group program that teaches self-led, do-it-all women how to use their internal guidance system to create the soul-aligned success, emotionally fulfilling relationships, happiness, and inner peace they long for without losing their edge or disrupting the life they’ve worked so hard to create.

LONGING FOR MORE
You’re an accomplished woman with a good life, so why is there a hollow feeling burrowing away at your soul? And emptiness aching in your heart? A longing to be met in your uniqueness and to feel more fully alive?

FEELING DISCONNECTED
There’s an uncomfortable distance in your partnership, friendships, and even with yourself. When you crave depth, why does it seem like there’s a wall between what you want and what you have?

WHO ARE YOU?
You've been doing the "married with kids" thing for a while, but the kids are getting older, they need you less, and your marriage needs help––which has you wondering if it's time to make yourself a priority and awaken to who you are beyond mother and wife.

DIMMING YOUR LIGHT
You want to make your life count––to live true to yourself and contribute to making the world a better place, but somehow you’re not fully expressing who you are for the world to see. Will you make the full impact you know you're here to make?

DOUBTING YOURSELF
You want to be courageous, to say and do the things that feel deeply true––with no regrets––but you notice you’re tiptoeing around and playing nice. What happened to that more passionate, playful, and feisty you?

WONDERING WHAT ELSE IS POSSIBLE
You've done all the "right" things––perhaps earning a degree, landing a good job, getting married, and raising a family.
There's a part of you that's played it safe and followed the rules, but another part of you––a bit of a rebel, she is––knows she was never meant to fit in a box and wants to be free to be ALL of herself.
That part is louder than ever.
She speaks to you as a restlessness in your heart that says there's something more––a longing for deeper emotional connection and more authentic self-expression.
You feel like you've tried everything you can think of, but nothing fills the void.
And you worry if something doesn't change, you'll die having lived a half-lived life––always productive and helpful, but dying a bit inside as each year passes.
Naturally, you find yourself blaming others and outside circumstances, but deep down, you know this is something only you can do––for yourself.
🌟 For your Soul 🌟
Here's the good news!
Living a life overflowing with happiness and inner peace…
Feeling so safe and supported that you can let your unique light shine and express yourself fully…
Cultivating emotionally deep and fulfilling relationships…
And emerging as the brilliant, whole, and authentic being you were always meant to be...
...is not a pipe dream.
It’s 100% achievable—even if, right now, it feels a little out of reach.
Because when you know the exact process to break free from external expectations, reconnect with your true and unique self, and live a meaningful, soul-guided life with deeper connections and internally-sourced happiness…
Your soul’s longing becomes a reality.
Inside You is a Built-In Guidance System...
...your own Soul Way GPS™ that guides you on a unique and personalized path––back home to whole yourself.
Over the past decade, it became clear to me that we're so cleverly built:
- As young children, we protect ourselves because we're small and powerless.
- When those self-protection strategies are no longer necessary for our survival, they begin to interfere with connection, steal our joy, limit our potential, and cause us to suffer.
- When we're ready, our Soul will guide us on the path to understand the ways we self-protect, reveal the parts of ourselves we cut off from to feel safe as children, cultivate enough inner safety to unguard our heart, and show us the way to live and love fully.
I was in awe when I discovered that we're always being guided to what we most need to know and do to reclaim our whole and unique selves, live a fulfilling and meaningful life, and experience more emotional depth and connection.
And, I thought––"someone needs to teach women exactly how to use this built-in system so we can unhook from everything that's stopping us from being all of who we are and having what we want most in our lives!"
So I did what I do...I created a program to do exactly that!
Introducing The Whole Soul Way™
With Deb Blum
A one-of-a-kind group program that teaches self-led, do-it-all women how to use their internal guidance system to create the soul-aligned success, emotionally fulfilling relationships, happiness, and inner peace they long for without losing their edge or disrupting the life they’ve worked so hard to create.
Self-Led Women Like You Need a Process that Puts You In Charge
What you'll be learning is designed to support you on your lifelong journey to deepen your own relationship with yourself and others. You'll walk away knowing exactly what to do when anything comes up in your life in order to process it and integrate it into greater wholeness. Over the course of six months, you can expect to gain relief, confidence, and inner peace. However, since life constantly presents new challenges, this process empowers you to tap into your own strength and learn from every experience that gets thrown at you.
Tune in to the video below to learn more about the concept of self-coaching:

Inner Peace & Happiness
No matter what life throws at you, you know how to get back to center. Your boundaries are more clear and you feel at home with yourself. No more proving your value because you rest in your worth. You've become the source of safety, validation, and love and it's being reflected back to you.

Soul-Aligned Success
You finally realize that you're loved for who you are, not what you do. You feel enough inner safety to express your gifts, speak your truth, and be more visible and seen in all that you do. Your renewed and deeper sense of confidence and calm impacts others positively and leads to new levels of success.

Emotionally Deep Relationships
You feel more connected to your heart and your relationships feel more emotionally fulfilling. You know how to continually shift unhealthy patterns and deepen surface-level connections. You have the inner strength to reveal yourself vulnerably and are able to hold space for others to do the same.
This 6-month immersion and group experience is the integration and culmination of my most tried-and-tested principles and practices.
Designed for women who have a lot to give and do,
but want to give and do from wholeness not self-sacrifice
The Whole Soul Way ™ is the most direct and effective path to heal every area of your life as a woman and transform your life in all the best ways.
In the program, you'll learn how to:





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For years, I felt the discomfort you're sitting with right now.
I grew up in a middle-class family, an emotional, creative and expressive soul trapped in a cage of conformity, where over and over again, I was told:
"Follow the rules, be likeable, respect authority, and never rock the boat!"
And so, I did what all good girls do:
I (mostly) suppressed my true self and became who they thought I should be.
I worked hard, climbed the career ladder, married a great guy, and gave birth to two amazing boys.
You might say, "I had it all!"
Around most people, I lived like a caged bird, unable to fully spread my wings and soar.
It was only in the presence of my children where I realized something else was available––I experienced what it felt like to be completely free to be all of myself.
I learned that when I cut off from my true essence and hid parts of who I really am––I paid a hefty price.
For me, the price was the deep existential pain of being disconnected from myself, a pattern of one-sided friendships, and a very close encounter with divorce.
How could I connect deeply in my relationships when I felt so utterly disconnected from myself?
How could I connect with my husband when I was so self-reliant and independent?
My extreme self-reliance was rooted in a (false) belief that no one could handle me, no one could hold my pain, no one could really take care of me, and that I couldn’t trust anyone to really show up for me the way I needed. But I didn't want to live that way anymore.
I reached a threshold and something had to change.
I realized that my external accomplishments were no longer enough and no one was going to be able to give me what I was longing for until I did it for myself first.
I had heard the idea that "I’m loved for who I am, not what I do."
But I was befuddled by it. I truly could not imagine it because all I KNEW was how to prove my worth and do whatever it took to be accepted and valuable.
As resistant as I felt to this idea, I also was deeply curious about what might be possible if I believed this.
I committed to experiencing this for myself.
And so, I went on an excavation inward and, just like the bird, I escaped the cage of my own stories, fears, and wounding. The cage of external expectations, pressure, and conditioning.
Much to my surprise, I didn't become weaker or alienate the people I loved. I became even more powerful and capable of connecting more deeply than ever before.
It wasn’t always easy. The road to self-discovery rarely is. But deep down, we who strive for excellence and want the best for ourselves and our family know––anything worth having is worth putting in the effort.
On The Whole Soul Way™ Journey, you'll learn to cultivate the inner safety and strength needed to bring all of you into all that you do. My zone of genius is in helping do-it-all women connect their beautiful minds to their expansive hearts and to forge a nurturing relationship with themselves that serves as the foundation for all other relationships and from which they rise in their full power.
We get taught to be who the world thinks we should be, but everyone in our lives longs for us to be who we really are.
Are you ready to bring YOU more fully into your life?
A Sampling of Shifts In Me That I'm Most Proud Of

Freedom
I used to be stiff, rigid, and reserved, afraid of looking foolish, silly, or awkward. Now I’m super silly, love to dance and move and enjoy acting goofy. This was a result of my trauma healing and being brave!

Self-Confidence
I used to be so uncomfortable in groups, I’d stumble over my words, say dumb things, get nervous, turn red, and shake. Now I lead groups of women (who I used to be scared of) and love being a part of group programs!

Access to My Heart
I could easily take up space talking about ideas and concepts, but was terrified when asked to share about my personal experience, feelings, or other emotional stuff. Now I love it!

Saved My Marriage
We nearly got divorced 12 years ago and we worked our asses off to re-build our marriage more consciously and managed to keep our family intact! It was touch and go for a while, but we did it - 22 years and counting!

Launched My Boys
We raised 2 young men who are thriving and are A-mazing! Not biased though :) Most important to me was that my boys hold onto themselves and relate authentically. And they do! What an absolute honor and blessing it has been to be their mom.
Are you ready to unhook from the pressure to live according to external expectations and reclaim a relationship with your Soul as your true guide toward living true to yourself?
Yes, I'm ready!
- Lifetime Access to the TWSW Foundations Course
- Perspective-shifting training and lessons
- Transformational exercises and self-inquiry tools
- Private Membership Site with a Phone App
- Daily access to me & my team in the Forum (M-F)
- Weekly 2-Hour Group Calls with personal coaching every single time (3/month, 18 in total)
- Monthly Live Teaching Call for each module

- 1:1 Voxer Coaching Support from me (M-F)
- Private Voxer Group with your cohort
- Small Group Size limited to 10 women
- Super supportive and engaged Community
- BONUS: Lifetime Access to 20+ Guided Meditations
- BONUS: Nervous System Regulation Training
- BONUS: Soul Reading to learn your soul age, role, and goal from a wise and experienced Shaman

You Can Absolutely:
- Feel more emotionally centered and less reactive
- Create more emotional depth in your relationships
- Feel internally safe enough to be the unique you
- Replace mental chatter with inner peace
- Get it all done while being self-compassionate
- Feel safe to express your soul's truth authentically and vulnerably
- Get comfortable with conflict
- Be kind and generous while honoring your own needs
- Create the life you want without blowing up the life you've worked so hard to create!
Are you ready?
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Your Investment
$6,997
NOTE: I will be launching this as a Self-Paced Version in Early 2024 priced at $1,997!
Let's Get on a Quick Call to Discuss!
NOTE: As soon as you register, you'll get access to the content which means you can dive in to the lessons right away–– when we officially start, you'll have already familiarized yourself with the process and be ready for the mentorship and guidance!
The sooner, the better!
Sample Cohort Schedule Based on the September 2023 Cohort:
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What Makes The Whole Soul Way™ Program Unique

It's Not Just a Bunch Of Meditations that Don't Create Transformation
Do you struggle with traditional mediation? Then you’ll love The Whole Soul Way’s approach which knows that women with busy minds have a hard time getting benefits from meditation. Instead, we keep your mind engaged with self-inquiry and guided visualizations that increase your self-awareness, inner safety and sense of wholeness.

You Literally Grow Up and Get Unstuck
In The Whole Soul Way, you'll step fully into the leadership position of all aspects of your life and take back your FULL power. We show you how to stop seeking to be parented by others and parent yourself into the spiritually and emotionally mature woman you're here to be. This is how you get unstuck and back in your power!

We Build a Stable Foundation of Self-Love
Instead of perpetuating the belief that there's something wrong with you by focusing on improving and fixing yourself and your life––which causes more self-loathing and rejection––we focus on accepting and making peace with yourself so you can build a stable foundation of inner safety and self-trust from which you can soar.

No Short Term Strategies That Stop Working When the Program Ends
I assure you, this program will be nothing like you've done before and it will change you forever. It's gentle AND deep. It's accessible AND powerful. It's supportive AND empowering. You'll learn a new way of "doing" life rather than just more information and will walk away knowing exactly how to continue to use your inner GPS to further deepen your relationship with yourself and others.

Don't Stop Being Judgmental For Us! Bring it On!
We lean into judgments, criticism, and blame and use them as an opportunity for self-discovery. Instead of seeing these thoughts as negative and fighting to become a more perfect version of ourselves, we use them as a compass to guide us back to ourselves time and time again.
This might be a good fit if:
You've done a lot to fix & improve yourself & your life. You're resourceful, determined, & willing to do what it takes, but you're tired of managing it all and are ready for a new approach to life.
You have the time and space to do this. You're ready to invest in yourself. Figuring out how to truly enjoy and thrive in the life you're in is your top priority. I suggest that women carve out at least 5 hours per week for the 6-months.
You're coachable. There are times in life when we're just not ready or open to being coached. Perhaps we're resistant to change or don't want the results enough to get uncomfortable (therefore, experience transformation). Be honest with yourself. Are you ready to take full responsibility for yourself and your life and to do what it takes to get there? If you are, then you will get the transformation you want. If you're unsure, schedule a call with me and I can answer any of your questions.
You've got an open mind. I'm not for those who have a fixed mind and limited flexibility of thinking. If you're more of a rigid thinker and don't like to explore new possibilities and perspectives, there may be other programs that are better for you.
You're ready! Something has to change–you're dying inside–and you're going to die with regrets if you don't do something now!
You might not be a good fit if:
You're looking for something to take your mind off your current circumstances like vision boarding, inspirational meditations, motivational quotes, pampering, and positivity-only. Here, we're creating lives we no longer need to escape from!
You're in crisis mode AND have no time. Truth is, it's hard to be in crisis mode and do this type of work, unless it's your priority and you have the time and make the commitment. This work is the way out, but it does require your time and focus to get there!
You dislike self-reflection. This program is based in self-inquiry. To get the most out of the program, you'll be writing, typing, or sending yourself voice notes as you work through the self-inquiry tools. Timing is important and if you're not ready to look inside, come back when you are!
You want a quick fix. There is no quick fix (sorry if I'm the one bringing this bad news), but you will quickly see shifts in your life if you put the effort in!
You have a difficult time watching videos or taking online courses. The lessons are primarily delivered through video and audio. If this isn't your jam, this may not be the right program for you. You won't be successful if you only show up to group calls without having followed along with the content.














Wow Deb! Looks like you have a lot of awesome members with great things to say about about The Whole Soul Way™!
Wow Deb! Looks like you have a lot of awesome members with great things to say about about The Whole Soul Way™!
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Designed for women who have a lot to do and give,
but want to do and give from their full selves not self-sacrifice
Break free from the pressure to be anyone but you, the conditioning that sabotages your dreams, the expectations that limit your potential, the unhealthy patterns playing out in your life, the fear that constrains you, and any other mental debris that holds you back...
...and finally feel safe enough and be conscious enough to
show up as your most authentic and fully expressed self
and feel deeply satisfied in the life you've worked so hard to create.
The course is $6,997 and the early bird pricing saves you $1,000 until August 1, 2023.
If you're not ready or sure yet, get on my email list to stay in touch, get to know me a bit, and get updates on future live cohorts and offerings!
But, the best thing of all (that I learned from experience)...
-> As soon as I commit, things will start to shift in your life. Which means you get an extra boost before the program begins!
For anyone considering joining The Whole Soul Way program, the early bird pricing ends Aug 10th!
And yes, you will get access to the course and lessons right away!
-> One more bonus: the first 3-4 women to sign up get to weigh in on the day of the week and time for the group calls!
If you already know you want to get on a call with me, but you were waiting until it gets closer, perhaps now you understand why sooner is better!
If you already know you want to sign up or just have a few questions, you can email me, send me a Voxer, or DM me on Facebook!
Also, some women prefer to start with email, DM, or Voxer and then jump on a call after.
Start where it feels most right for you!
Yes, you're welcome to split this into 6 payments (at a slightly higher price point) or pay in full.
I hope to offer scholarship options in the future.
Here's the gist of what's in our terms of sale:
In a nutshell, we don't offer refunds. Your purchase of the program indicates your commitment to participate in the program and process and follow through to its conclusion and is non-refundable.
However, we also understand that unexpected events can happen. In addition to the general guidelines outlined below, refunds and cancellations will be considered for extenuating circumstances only, on an individual basis, at my sole discretion.
You may cancel your order within 24 hours of purchasing and request a refund. To cancel an order, let me know within 24 hours. I require a short phone call to discuss prior to issuing a refund. The refund will be issued, minus a 5% to cover credit card and transaction fees.
It's important that you understand that changing your mind about the course, failing to follow through or understand the details of the course, not experiencing the results you expected or desired, falling behind, or experiencing any other similar situations does not count as extenuating circumstances and will not be considered as justification to request a refund.
For these reasons, I recommend that you feel confident that this is the right decision for you before you purchase the program.
When you register, you will be asked to sign an agreement and choose to pay in full or pay with a payment plan. After that, you'll get an email to confirm the purchase, a copy of our agreement, and access to the online platform where the courses will reside.
You'll immediately get login details to the membership site and course and I encourage you to browse around and dive in before we officially start!
By getting started BEFORE the mentorship and guidance starts, you will have already acclimated to the membership site and started to integrate the lessons and be ready for support at a deeper level.
Also, if you can't start until September, that's totally okay too! Whenever you start will be perfect :)
Each live cohort will be limited to 10 women. This will give enough time for everyone to get support and mentorship on each live call.
You will have lifetime access to the content. That is, for as long as the program exists. If I were to decide to stop teaching the program, I would give you advanced warning so that you can download anything you'd like to continue to have access to.
My current plan is to offer a live cohort in September each year and possibly adding a second one in March.
However, I can't guarantee exactly how I will offer this in the future.
I know you're asking because you're not sure that now is the right timing. I totally get it.
And, I'll remind you of this. Time flies by. If you wait until the next time I offer it, you'll have put yourself on the back-burner AGAIN. You'll be putting other people and circumstances ahead of you AGAIN. And next summer, you'll look back and say "Why didn't I do that in September or March? Imagine how much different my life would look right now if I had only done it!"
If not now, when? Make sure it's not your trickster ego trying to keep you safe and wanting you to keep status quo in your life. Feel free to email me and we can sort out if it's the right timing for you.
No problem! They will be recorded and uploaded to the Membership Site. You can access them via your computer or an app on your phone.
However, I do think it'd be best if you arrange your schedule to be on most of the calls live because that will provide you with the best opportunity to connect with others and to get your own personalized support.
The sooner you sign up, the more input you get to the days/times of the live calls. I usually wait until the first 4 women sign up and then we try to agree on a time that works for them!
Calls will likely be around 10am PT / 1pm ET on Wednesday or Thursday, but I may offer different times for each of the 3 calls in order to accommodate people in different time zones and with different schedules.
Yes! There will be three ways that you'll interact directly with Deb:
1:1 Voxer Time: Each week, you will have the opportunity to leave me a voice (or text) message using the app called Voxer. Within 24-48 hours, M-F, I will reply back to you with a voice message. This will provide you with the personalized (and private) support you may need to integrate what you're learning and experiencing.
Small Group Calls: On each group call, you'll always have an opportunity get personalized coaching and guidance from Deb.
Within the Lessons and Forum: In addition, you'll get support in the course platform and online forum where you'll be able to ask questions, support others, share your wins, learn from others, and receive "micro-coaching" from me and my team.
The more you engage, the more support you'll experience.
If you tend to sit back and be more of an observer in programs, this will be a great chance for you to push that edge and ask for what you need, ask questions, and engage.
The women who have been through the program have found that it's a safe and supportive group.
After the 6 month live cohort ends, you'll have the opportunity to re-join another live cohort (at a discounted price) and/or join the Evolution Monthly Membership which includes group coaching calls, access to 1:1 Voxer time (for an additional cost), and deeper and more expansive content to support you as you continue on your journey.
This program is the real deal.
It's easy to SAY "be authentic" or "heal your inner child" or "do shadow work" or "heal your past," but it's harder to show the actual way.
The Whole Soul Way™ is the way and gives you a clear path to create the inner safety and confidence to discover and incrementally reveal more and more of you.
Most women who work with me have already completed other programs (leadership, communication, meditation, business, etc.), read a lot of books, hired coaches, and know what they want. But their big complaint is that it doesn't translate into the changes they want to see in their life.
That's because very few programs are designed to address the practical steps to clear the mental and emotional debris getting in the way. The reality is that we get stuck in our own mind with our own defeating thoughts and fears, so until we work at that level, what we learn won't translate into getting what we want.
When we discover who we are underneath those layers of fear, conditioning and beliefs, is when we become fortified from the inside-out. Then we feel bold enough to show up fully and become creators in our life.
I often say that our work is really about getting out of our own way––to remove the barriers to love, to gently get out of our heads, and to learn to let go––bit by bit.
As with any program, you will get out of it what you put in. It has the power to be transformational, but only if you are willing to be honest with yourself, face your stuff and bravely make changes (even if they are tiny ones).
This program marks the beginning of a whole new way of doing life. Of course, you'll experience huge shifts during the first time you work through the content. But it's not a discrete program that you will complete and move on, hoping you got something from it, but likely forgetting what you learned.
It's a repeatable process that you'll use the rest of your life. It's a new way of doing life. I like the comparison of a diet vs. lifestyle changes. this is a lifestyle change and an opportunity to keep expanding more and more into the totality of who you are; to loving more openly and fully; and to showing up in your life and shining your light more brightly.
You'll learn the specific steps to use your own life as the fodder for your continued growth, healing, and evolution.
A lot of women tell me that they're scared to do this work because they're afraid of what their own transformation could mean to their marriage, kids, friendships and overall life.
- Are they going to have to stop liking luxuries or enjoying the things they like now if they get all spiritual?
- Will they lose friendships? Leave people behind?
- Will they change so much that they don't fit into their family anymore?
- Are they going to feel like they have to leave their marriage?
- Will they become an odd-ball?
The answer is no to that and all of the other scary thoughts about the future that are in your head.
This program is for women like you who want to awaken to the truth of who you are without any pressure to disrupt the life you've worked so hard to create.
If anything, you will be MORE in control of your life and your choice than every before. This program is about you finding YOU and being the leader of your life. You get to decide!
Wonderful!
Here's the most important question to be asking yourself - are you experiencing the level of self-empowerment, inner peace, fulfillment, and ease in your life that you desire?
I can't get over how many times I meet women who appear to have it all together, but underneath they are so stressed out, working so hard to keep it all together, taking things personally, coming home to their children and being easily triggered, feeling like she's a fraud or that she's too much and has to curate herself, powering through life but wishing she could let go of some of the control, and the list keeps going on and on.
Many of these women have taken leadership classes, experienced meditation programs, learned communication skills, and attended team building retreats. They may have amazing interpersonal skills, but the place they're lacking is in their relationship with themselves.
I even see this in the spiritual spaces. So many women who have deep meditation, breathwork, or yoga practices, but their day to day lives are still fraught with so much struggle and challenge. They know how to get to stillness, but they haven't integrated this into their lives.
What I'm getting at here is that if you aren't experiencing the peace, aliveness, connection, and fulfillment that you want, you will definitely benefit from The Whole Soul Way.
One more thing. I have been on my healing and awakening path for over 15 years and I am humble enough to know that there is always more for me to learn, unconsciousness to be made conscious, opportunities to go deeper, barriers to remove, and new layers to be healed. I continue to seek out new mentors to ensure that I am evolving and growing.
The question isn't whether you can benefit from more healing or to learn or grow more.
The question is, "is The Whole Soul Way the program that you most resonate with to support you at this current moment in your life for the specific growth your Soul is calling you toward?"
If you’ve been on a lifelong personal growth journey and you’re searching for the missing piece that can shift all aspects of your life, then this program is for you.