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The Whole Soul Way™ is the only online LIVE experiential group training program that gives women with high expectations and busy minds a clear process to unhook from fear, pressure, and drama so they feel free to be their true selves and live and love fully, without having to disrupt their current relationships or meditate daily.

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Your Soul Longs for Something More, but You Don't Know How To Get It... 

You do it all. You're the one everyone counts on. The one who knows how to get things done.

But, you're restless for something more. You long for more depth and emotional intimacy

More fun and joy.

You've asked a million times for what you want from others.

And, you worry if something doesn't change, you'll die not having tapped into your full potential.

And all of this is sucking the life out of you

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I get it. You're in the right place.

Let me re-assure you––it's not that you aren't doing enough.

Our society glorifies busyness, idealizes productivity and sanctifies self-sacrifice.

We’ve all done it––we've abandoned ourselves to keep the peace, sacrificed our authenticity for acceptance, suppressed our truth and plastered over them with a smile and an automatic “yes." 

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I know you’ve done a lot of personal growth work––meditations, journaling, retreats, yoga, books, courses, new habits, exercise, self-care, improved your diet––and it's gotten you here.

Your life looks good from the outside,
but inside, it's a different story. 

 Inside, you're spinning.

You see your relationships suffering. You see yourself suffering.  

You feel like you've tried so hard, and even though you know that it "starts with you," you can't help but think that you're the exception, and that you really DO need things on the outside to be different in order for you to feel whole and happy. 

You're the kind of person who figures things out, but this one has you stumped.

 That's because there’s something deeper at play here. 

Hi! I’m Deb Blum, Soul Nurturer and Your Guide

Deep down, most of us are afraid we’re not lovable or worthy as we are. That we need to be who we believe we should be in order to be accepted and loved. That we need to prove our worth. 

And it's simply not true. You don't need to do more, be different, change yourself (or others) or protect others.

What you need is to show up fully.

But that's easier said than done.

We've have been programmed to not show up fully. We've been conditioned to keep others comfortable at the expense of ourselves. We've been taught disempowering messages that keep us stuck and afraid. 

What I know to be true is that the thing you believe is missing in your life is not what you think. 

What's missing is YOU–the real, deep, authentic, flawed, brave and unique you.

And I have a secret for you: everyone in your life actually longs for the true you––your family, friends, work, clients, partner. Everyone. 

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A 15-Week LIVE Experiential Training and Group Coaching Program where you'll learn how to:

Deep Down, What You Really Want Is To:

  • Live and love fully and experience greater aliveness, fun and fulfillment in your life
  • Feel confident to be the authentic you with others and not worry about their disapproval or judgment
  • Stop waiting for someone to save you and, instead, pick up where your parents left off and take responsibility for your life and your happiness
  • Be kinder toward yourself and truly believe that you’re loved for who you are not what you do
  • Remove the barriers to love so you can be available for more emotionally deep and close relationships  
  • Break free from self-sabotage, shoulds, pressure, fear and other limitations that keep you from creating the life you most want to be living


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This 15-Week Soul Nurturing Accelerator is a Highly Interactive and Experiential LIVE Training and Coaching Program that Includes:

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Where You'll Move From Your Inner Child In Control to Your Adult Self In Control 

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The Whole Soul Way™ is about giving you the process, skills and support you need to enjoy the life you're in

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12 Payments of $197 USD /  1 Payment of $1997 USD (save $367)

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5 Ways The Whole Soul Way™ is Unique

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The Whole Soul Way™ is trauma-informed and inquiry-based. Often people with busy minds have a hard time getting results from meditation. We focus on channeling the strengths of having a busy mind into the skill of self-inquiry. Through inquiry and reparenting, we remove the debris and gunk (fears, conditioning, programming, pain) that keep you hidden and insecure in the world. We don't seek to transcend or bypass your human experience––rather, we do what it takes to enjoy the life you're in so much that you have no need to transcend it. We're focused on you gaining a deep and embodied understanding of the human experience and inner workings of your body and mind so that you can feel safer inside of yourself an in the world. While meditation is encouraged, we primarily focus on self-inquiry, self-understanding, self-parenting, integration, and a process of incrementally revealing more of our truest selves as we increase our inner safety and sense of wholeness.

The Whole Soul Way™ is rooted in the premise that no one is emotionally or spiritually mature at 18 when we legally become adults. We believe that if we don't step fully into the role as our own parent and pick up where our parents left off, we'll forever be seeking a parent "out there" to meet our unmet needs, complete us, or otherwise take care of us. The Whole Soul Way™ invites us to embrace self-leadership whereby we step up to become our own parent and raise ourselves into the emotionally and spiritually mature and whole women that we're here to be. That we heal from our pasts by nurturing ourselves, creating inner safety, and integrating our young parts into wholeness. This enables us to step fully and bravely into our most fully expressed selves in the world, living into our full potential AND to cultivate emotionally deep and intimate relationships (with ourselves and others).

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While growing, improving ourselves and becoming the best version of ourselves is super important if we want to live fully and feel alive and excited about life, it's over-emphasized. When we focus on fixing and improving ourselves, we tell our young parts that we're not okay as we are (which is the same message most of us got as children). We perpetuate self-rejection and the sense that we have to hustle for our worth. When we accept ourselves as we are, we build a stable foundation of self-love from which we can soar. In addition, as we cultivate greater self-love, we must include shadow integration work as well. We must love the parts of ourselves that we fear are most unlovable. We heal that wounding that happened when we had to cut off from parts of ourselves in order to be accepted and we become free to be our true and whole selves. And then can we reach for the stars!

The Whole Soul Way™ is built on a foundation that you have everything you need inside of you and that your life is always showing you exactly what you need to guide you back home to yourself, to inner safety and to wholeness. However, most of us aren't taught how to use this inner guidance system. Rather than teach you more knowledge, we teach you a process. We teach you an actual system that you can use over and over to be the leader of your personal healing journey as well as your entire life. The Whole Soul Way™ is another way to do life––a shift away from survival to thriving, from external to internal validation, from ego-led to soul led, from fitting in to self-acceptance. So many of us see a vision of what we want in our lives, but don't know how to get there. We don't wave our hands and give you a vague idea for how to do this work, we show you a clear path with actual steps from here to there at your own pace according to your own body and mind’s timeline.

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The Whole Soul Way™ shows us how to use every thought, feeling, fear, judgment, trigger, blame, should, experience, reaction, pain, fodder for our healing and growth journey. We aren't trying to escape the human condition, rather to integrate it into wholeness. Rather than tell anyone that a spiritually and emotionally evolved woman doesn't judge, gossip or blame, we invite you to lean into those judgments, the gossip and the blame and use them as an opportunity to know more about ourselves. We don't look at your less than perfect behaviors as something you need to learn to transcend or suppress so much as something that tells us something about your inner experience your feelings, fears and needs. Some people want to skate on the surface of life, but women in The Whole Soul Way™ want to go in and see how life is a mirror for them and to use every chance they can to heal, grow, and evolve into the best version of themselves

A Vision For the Future

What Emotional and Spiritual Wholeness and Maturity May Look Like For You

Stronger Sense of Self 

  • A solid sense of identity, and what others think or feel about you doesn't lead you to question who you are
  • You stop needing to justify anything about yourself
  • You speak what’s true for you with sensitivity to others but from your authentic self
  • You release the need to be constantly busy, “productive,” and hustling for your worth
  • Your value comes from a deeper place and is less connected to your usefulness or helpfulness
  • You are the source of your approval
  • When you’re with people, you no longer feel depleted or exhausted because you aren’t pretending to be someone you aren’t
  • When you lose yourself temporarily, you know how to find your way back

Deeper Emotional Connections

  • You're able to cultivate closer, deeper, and more connected relationships––ones where you feel comfortable being your true self and feel mutually fulfilling
  • You no longer abandon yourself in a bid to be accepted and to fit in
  • You feel more emotionally connected to yourself, others, and life itself
  • You no longer feel like you have to do it all on your own and feel more supported
  • Your heart is more open, you feel more safe to be vulnerable and you feel less guarded
  • You feel more seen, understood and loved
  • You feel more emotionally met in your romantic relationship
  • You speak your  and more on being true to yourself

Greater Confidence and Calm

  • You’re able to find your calm, confident center in the midst of chaos

  • You speak your truth and value yourself enough to show up and not hide
  • You can kindly say no without guilt
  • You source your happiness from inside, rather than from other people or circumstances
  • You're bravely breaking old patterns and living true to yourself
  • You see yourself as the creator of your life, rather than the victim of life's circumstances
  • You find yourself doing things you never thought you were capable of and feeling completely lit up by the experience

  • You experience more freedom, fun, and fulfillment in your life

The Whole Soul Way™ Results Framework

TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR OWN LIFE: Become aware of all of the ways that your life is being run by your inner child and protector. Channel your self-reliance to bravely turn inward and clear out the ways you're being run by fear, limitations and conditioned beliefs.

PICKUP WHERE YOUR PARENTS LEFT OFF: Provide for yourself that which you didn't get from your parents so that you can cultivate a fulfilling emotional and spiritual connection with yourself and raise yourself into the woman you're here to be.

COURAGEOUS ACTION: Show up in your life, work and relationships resting in your worth and standing in authentic power. Be more brave and bold and create the more of what you want in your life.

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What Participants Are Saying

"What we do in The Whole Soul Way is explore the ways we protect ourselves. I've had to look at all the ways I wish that others would do what I want them to do to make me feel safe and loved, how lonely my inner child feels and how much she wants MY connection and attention. One of the most surprisingly healing, empowering and helpful things I learned was to how to step in as my inner parent and be there for myself in the ways my parents weren't able to be there for me. That alone made this program worthwhile. 

We're looking at what scares us and how to be more courageous. Before this, I was afraid to face some of the uncomfortable feelings and fears that were in me, but I was trying to push away. I'm not sure what I was so afraid of because it's been so helpful to face the things that scare me.

I feel so lucky to be around other women who are busting free from so much fear and growing so much. We're all stepping into an empowered place in our lives. I feel less scared and more brave. The actual lessons are deep but surprisingly natural and easier to do than I expected. I'm going to be sad when our time together comes to an end."

~ A member in the Spring 2022 Cohort

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I was on the floor at one point, begging for guidance: “Please show me the way.”

The most frustrating part of my own healing journey for me was that I could NOT figure out how to get my emotional needs met. I had great role models and experiences around being capable to do what I needed to do to live a good life, work hard and figure things out. But I had no role models or experiences around what it felt like to be met or held emotionally. 

Can you relate? 

I can't say that I got the answers right then while on the floor begging. But over time, it's become clear that I was being shown the way––and that it’s built into each of us––that shows us exactly what our next step is on our healing journey. 

I spent a decade figuring this out, and I don’t want you to have to chase down the steps like I did. 

I teach women like you how to use your own inner guidance system (The Soul Way GPS™) to reclaim and accept all of themselves, stop being run by fear and self-protection and feel more brave and empowered to live with a more open heart and more fully. 

While it may have taken me 10+ years to get here, I’m here to tell you that it doesn’t have to take you that long because I put the time in for you. I teach this work because I needed it, and I believe the world needs it. No one should go through life not knowing that they have a built in healing guidance system, that they don’t have to live with so much inner distress and that there is another way to do life.

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More About What We'll Do Together

I don’t help women do traditionally epic things, lead them to bliss or promise eternal happiness. I help them settle into themselves, to feel that deep sense that they're okay just as they are. To feel safe enough to open their hearts and experience emotionally deep and rich relationships. To feel deeply satisfied in the life they’re in––in the skin they’re in. To feel like they no longer have to hustle to prove themselves, but to rest in their worth instead. And therefore confident enough to show up fully


I don't do superficial––I guide women into deep self-acceptance and unconditional love. I do a very gentle version of shadow integration work. I teach women how to step in as their own loving parent and pick up where their parents left off so they can grow into, not only the mature woman who can get anything done, but also the emotionally and spiritually mature woman who can live and love fully and deeply. Self-acceptance is the foundation for truly shining your light brightly in the world.

The Whole Soul Way™ participants tell me that they didn’t realize how much they’ve lived with their ego in the driver’s seat––and that they have the power to choose another way, that the solution to their suffering is to accept themselves rather than beating themselves up, and so much more. They tell me that they were awakened in many ways––they listened to Oprah, Eckart Tolle, Brene Brown and many more wisdom teachers. But they never understood HOW to get there. The Whole Soul Way™ is the HOW––how to use all of life to teach you how to do your own inner work at your own pace according to your own body and mind’s timeline. And then how to fully accept and love yourself. How to raise yourself into the woman you're here to be. And how to show up in the world authentically and bravely.  


The Whole Soul Way™ is for you if you know at your core that you’re a good person who is kind, generous and gives a lot, but you also find yourself stuck in repeating patterns, relationships and situations. And, if you’re honest, you see that YOU are at the center of all of your problems, but often on the sidelines of your life. You won't deny that you wish you could simply change others or easily fix your circumstances, but, deep down, you know that this is your personal journey to become all of who you're here to be.

If you’ve been on a lifelong personal growth journey and you’re searching for the missing piece that can shift all aspects of your life, then this program is for you.

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I know all of this first hand

In 2009, I started to experience my own restlessness. I was the one who had it all together, always striving to be the best version of myself––best consultant, best manager, best leader, best mom, best volunteer. Whatever I did, I put pressure on myself to do it well and rarely asked for help. I was the perfect picture of self-reliance in all the ways except in fulfilling my own emotional needs. When my kids were 6 and 8, when the you-know-what hit the fan, I nearly lost my marriage and I was in the thick of a midlife breakdown. 

I was so deeply disconnected from myself. I put all of the blame on my husband because I wanted to feel emotionally connected and met and neither one of us seemed to know how to create that. I carried the weight of the world on my shoulders.

Over the past decade, through various coach training programs, therapy, coaching and thousands of hours of inner work, I sifted through my own fear, programming and trauma and dug myself out of the debris so that I could show up more fully. Funny thing, in some ways I appeared to be a person who showed up fully, and that's why you can't tell from the outside. I was bold, feisty and opinionated. I was successful and a confident mom in many ways. But that was all because I was good at controlling my outside world. When doing better and more, improving myself and fixing stuff stopped working, I was at a loss. I had to learn how to stand in my own power, accept and love myself and show up fully from the inside-out. I had to let go of the idea that I needed others or life to look a certain way to feel safe and be happy and to source happiness and safety from within.

I never imagined I could get where I am today. I truly didn't think that my marriage was salvageable. I didn't know that I could experience emotional freedom and unhook from the grips of fear. But I have. And I want this for you, too. As a result of my inner work and what I've learned by working with hundreds of women, I've created The Whole Soul Way™ where I walk women through a step-by-step process to stop living from fear and liberate themselves emotionally so they feel safe enough to be their true selves and live and love fully. 

In The Whole Soul Way™, I'll show you how to enjoy the life you're in and create more of what you want in your life by bringing all of you into it.  

  • You'll become aware of (and work through) all of the unconscious ways that your fear mind runs your life and we'll put you in the driver's seat
  • You'll discover how to love and accept all of yourself so can feel safe enough to show up as your true self
  • You'll know what it means to take 100% responsibility for your life so you can live and love fully without waiting around for anyone to change or do better 

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The world I want you to help me create

While I know that this work is so important at an individual level, I also am so committed to this work because I know that it has a ripple effect and has the power to transform relationships, families and the entire world. The more you love the whole you, the more you will be able to love others. The more you feel whole inside, the more you will be able to truly be there for others. When we show up fully, we give others permission to do so as well. And the more full your emotional and spiritual cup is from the inside, the more it will spill over into all of your relationships. 

I decided to create this program so that I could be accessible to more people. And this program has the potential to bring profound healing and change to your life. 

I truly believe that this work is some of the most important work we can do on a personal and planetary level. While I do believe that systems and structures need to be changed in order to make the world a better place, not all of us will be able to willing to take action at that level. However, each of us has the power to make significant change in this world by doing our inner work, healing our traumas, more consciously relating to one another and consciously raising our children. 

We are a microcosm of the macrocosm. What we change within us, changes outside of us. When we heal our inner oppressor, we contribute to the healing of oppression. When we are accepting our ourselves, we become more accepting of others. When we heal our trauma, we heal future generations. When we have more peace in our heart, we bring more peace to all of our interactions. It's our responsibility to heal so that we can share more love, compassion and care in the world.

This work supports us in evolving from fear, unconscious programming and the susceptibility to be influenced by immediate gratification TO conscious choice and intentionality in how we live. It may seem lofty, but I see this program as my contribution to evolving and expanding consciousness for ourselves and for humanity.

If you want to help me to create expanded consciousness, planetary healing and a more evolved humanity, The Whole Soul Way™ is the way. Join me!

Deb Blum 

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No problem! They will be recorded and uploaded to the Training Zone. You can access them via your computer or an app on your phone.

The cost of the program is $2,497. I'll be offering an early bird discount up until August 8th which will bring the price down to $1,997. 

Yes, you have the option to pay 12 payments of $197 if you prefer. I will be offering scholarships starting in 2023. 

All sales are final according to our terms and conditions here.

As soon as you register, you'll get some emails from me to prepare you for our upcoming program. On August 8th, you'll get access to the course site and pre-game videos plus some audio meditations.

We plan to cap the registration at 15 participants to ensure that each participant gets the support and individualized attention that's needed. 

This program is the real deal.
It's easy to SAY "be authentic" but it's hard to show the actual way.

The Whole Soul Way™ is the way and gives you a clear path to create the inner safety and confidence to unleash all of you.

Most women who work with me have already completed other programs, read a lot of books, hired coaches, and know what they want. But their big complaint is that it doesn't translate into the changes they want to see in their life.

That's because very few programs are designed to address the practical steps to clear the mental and emotional debris getting in the way. The reality is that we get stuck in our own mind with our own defeating thoughts and fears, so until we work at that level, what we learn won't translate into getting what we want. 

When we discover who we are underneath those layers of fear, conditioning and beliefs, is when we become fortified from the inside-out. Then we feel bold enough to show up fully and become creators in our life.

This isn't a 1:1 program, however, you will get a lot of support through group calls, live teaching calls and in the Facebook group. The groups will be small enough that you will have many opportunities to have your specific questions answered.

Yes it will. But it may not be offered LIVE again. And it won't be offered at this price again!