With this guide, you'll discover...

How to relate to the parts of you that you were told were unacceptable as a child

The untapped potential that got suppressed when you were a child

Why shadow work is so important if we want to live our lives and love ourselves fully

Simple and actionable steps to embody your golden shadow qualities

The important inner work to do to avoid a midlife crisis and make midlife exploration most productive

Why NOT doing shadow integration work can be the source of addictions, affairs, divorces and other crises in our life

One thing we get wrong that's at the root of why we never feel fully seen and loved

Exactly how to transform envy, judgment, and comparison into greater self-acceptance

Why shining a light on the parts we fear are unlovable frees up energy and lightens our load

“We are not here to fit in, be well balanced, or provide examples for others. We are here to be eccentric, different, perhaps strange, perhaps merely to add our small piece, our little clunky, chunky selves, to the great mosaic of being. As the gods intended, we are here to become more and more ourselves.” 

-James Hollis

Why should you trust me? I've been there myself...

Hi! I'm Deb, founder of The Whole Soul Way™ and Self-Love Guide and Soul Nurturer for women with high expectations and busy minds. 

It began in 2010 when I got tapped on the shoulder by my Soul. All the ways I managed and controlled my life were no longer working. I had always been happy (literally always smiling), and my life was going well. I had the "husband and two kids," a beautiful home, good friends, and so much more. I was the strong and reliable one. The one who didn't seem to need much. The one who could become whoever I needed to be to avoid upsetting someone or making others uncomfortable. 

I felt disconnected and restless–like something was missing (it was me–missing from my own life). I blamed my husband (he always seemed to be my scapegoat). And then I learned how to use all of that blame and all of my judgments to discover more about myself. I learned how to find all of the parts of me that I suppressed in order to survive childhood, to reclaim them and to come into greater wholeness. This has been how I've created enough inner safety and self-trust to show up as the most real me, to be more vulnerable, to love and live more fully and with a more open heart.

Now I show others how to do this for themselves.

Grab the guide so you can find and become more of yourself!

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